Two Rome nursing home employees arrested for stealing, pawning 89 year old's engagement ring

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Two Rome nursing home employees arrested for stealing, pawning 89 year old's engagement ring

By DAVID DELLECESE

ROME, N.Y. (WKTV) - Two Rome nursing home employees have been charged for allegedly stealing, and then pawning an engagement ring that belonged to an 89 year-old resident at Bethany Gardens Skilled Living Facility, the Attorney General's Office said.

The arrests stem from Attorney General Cuomo’s statewide investigations into abuse and neglect in institutional care settings.

Amanda Thaler, 27, of Rome, was employed as a Certified Nurse Aide at Bethany Gardens Skilled Living Facility, and is charged with petit larceny.

Her boyfriend, Sheldon Stoddard, 27, also of Rome, was employed as a Dietary Technician at Bethany Gardens, and is charged with criminal possession of stolen property.

Stoddard and Thaler were sent back to the Oneida County Correctional Facility where they were already being held on unrelated charges.

“These employees are accused of stealing a personal heirloom with priceless sentimental value from a vulnerable nursing home resident for whom they were supposed to be caring,” said Attorney General Cuomo. “Allegations like this demonstrate how nursing home patients can be taken advantage of by those entrusted with their care. Whether it is physical abuse or stealing money or personal possessions, my office is taking significant steps to protect New York’s seniors from those who would do them harm.” 

Court records show that on October 6, 2008, Thaler took two rings - a gold and diamond engagement ring given to the victim by her husband in 1940, and a family ring containing various gemstones.

The rings were visibly loose on the victim’s finger, and Thaler offered to take and have them fixed so they would not fall off her hand.

A half hour later, the victim requested the rings be returned, but Thaler ignored her.

Later, in the dining room, the victim again called out to Thaler to return the rings, at which point she handed back the family ring, but not the engagement ring.

According to court records, when pressed for the engagement ring, Thaler responded that she was feeling ill and needed to leave work.

She called her boyfriend and co-worker Stoddard to come pick her up at the nursing home. She proceeded to give him the ring and they drove together to a pawn shop where they sold it for $15. 

Thaler and Stoddard have since been terminated from Bethany Gardens.

The engagement ring was recovered and is being held by the Rome Police Department as evidence.

Below is a photo of the stolen ring:

Attorney General Cuomo thanks the Rome Police Department for its role in the investigation and arrest.

Chief Kevin Beach of the Rome Police Department said, “Nursing home abuse of any kind will not be tolerated in the City of Rome. Thanks to good police work and cooperation at all levels of law enforcement we were able to make an arrest in this alleged engagement ring theft.”

The charges are merely accusations and the defendants are presumed innocent until and unless proven guilty.

Attorney General Cuomo urges New Yorkers who witness or suspect incidences of patient abuse or Medicaid fraud to call his office at 1-866-NYS-FIGHT (697-3444).

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Tuesday, Dec 23 at 11:46 AM SuzyQ wrote ...

Well, this is funny. Every dog has it's day! You can bet your bottom he probably DID steal from your grandmother. Drug addicts/abusers will steal from the people closest to them first, Family members! Amanda got me as well. For money and a very sentimental piece of jewlery that wasn't worth spit. Except to me. Oh well. You will all be happy to know she is still sitting in jail. Mommy hasn't bailed her out of this one!! And hopefully she won't. I feel real bad for her sister and dad, good people!

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Wednesday, Dec 10 at 10:59 PM anonymous wrote ...

Sheldon, I hope to God you never took anything from our grandmother! May she rest in peace.

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Tuesday, Nov 25 at 8:24 PM Anonymous wrote ...

Way to go sheldon, Get fired from your job for being a drug dealer and collect unemployment for 9 months wasting your life away on heroin. I feel sorry for your family who are good people unlike the trash that you are.

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Tuesday, Nov 25 at 8:20 PM Anonymous wrote ...

So glad these pices of trash are finally off of our streets. Amanda has been in and out of rehab all her life. her first day on the job and the only thing she can accomplish is stealing a box of syringes and an elderly womans engagement ring. Her parents must be really proud of her!!!!!!

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Tuesday, Nov 25 at 6:31 PM Just Sad wrote ...

I have worked in nursing for over 6 years and this is very sad I started out as an cna and most of the old people in nursing homes have a hard time trusting people and when they do you get people like this its very sad they trust you with there life to take care of them and talk to them and so on for this women to steal from her is so wrong just scum they both are for him to go along with it also for what $15. that ring ment alot to that old lady just think of what else is taken from there SCUM.

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Tuesday, Nov 25 at 2:13 PM WOW!!! wrote ...

I WORKED WITH AMANDA AT UCP AND IM IN SHOCK!!! GUESS YOU CANT TRUST ANYONE...ESPECIALLY WHEN DRUGS ARE INVOLVED

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Tuesday, Nov 25 at 1:37 PM dont matter wrote ...

What a loser these grown adults are..I went to High School with Sheldon- things havent changed since then. Im sure he was trying to get some cash for drugs. Who in there right mind would do something to a innocent elderly women?

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Tuesday, Nov 25 at 1:32 PM Annonymous wrote ...

They both have stolen from several peolpe...I bet they have many more charges will come.How sad for that old women.I pray she gets her ring back soon.Bless all the victims.

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Tuesday, Nov 25 at 8:45 AM wad wrote ...

lets see what the district attorney and judges do now. they are total scum and should be locked up for years. the d.a. WILL plea bargain their charges and they will probably end up in drug court or if they get sentenced to prison the will go to willard which is a rehab. just wait and see!!

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Tuesday, Nov 25 at 2:13 AM Pepe Ed wrote ...

I'm speechless - no, really

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Monday, Nov 24 at 10:12 PM Anonymous wrote ...

Trash. Nothing but pure trash.

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Monday, Nov 24 at 10:07 PM YTMND wrote ...

So, no the old lady will never see the ring again because she's 89 years old and Rome PD will hold it until the case is over for evidence. She may pass before she ever gets it back. Give it Back!!!!

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Monday, Nov 24 at 9:43 PM ummm wrote ...

Weren't these 2 in the paper recently for something else? The pictures seem familiar. Sad thing is they won't get much of anything from the court

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Monday, Nov 24 at 9:27 PM nursing home worker wrote ...

Did this nursing home do a background check on these two? They are not new to being in the news they were on not long ago check it out

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Monday, Nov 24 at 8:54 PM To Sheldon wrote ...

Well I hope that you are sitting in jail thinking about what you just did. That is horrible how can anyone steal from a senior citizen. You have to be a real scumbag to do something like that.

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Monday, Nov 24 at 8:51 PM are you kidding me wrote ...

These are the same two that stole from our neighbors a little over a month ago. When they were arrested they had heroin on them. That is pathetic how low drug users will go. I'm glad the woman will get her ring back.

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Monday, Nov 24 at 8:00 PM Anonymous wrote ...

how would of you liked it if that was your grandmother theres just some things you dont do in life mess with kids and the elderly they'll teach you in attica

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Monday, Nov 24 at 7:13 PM anyone recognize these two? wrote ...

If anyone remembers these two in the news not too far back for burglarizing homes for valuables & money? To only turn around & trade or sell for drugs... I have no idea why they let them out in the first place.....

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Monday, Nov 24 at 6:05 PM Nauri wrote ...

sadly the punishment won't fit the crime. They should add time to the sentence when you steal from someone so vulnerable and someone who trusted you to take care of them! Both should be charged with elder abuse,for violating the trust placed in them. As a former nursing home worker, I have got to tell you that you are both lower than scumbags...you are the slime under a river rock...and you deserve more punishment than you will get in oneida county!

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Monday, Nov 24 at 5:50 PM Anonymous wrote ...

Thank god that these 2 people will not get another job in a nursing home in Nys or any other place if charges were filed right.

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Monday, Nov 24 at 5:27 PM lfpinny wrote ...

no morals or IQs, $15, I wondering if sitting in the County Jail was worth $15

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Monday, Nov 24 at 5:17 PM Ugh... wrote ...

This couple was caught in October for burglaries in random homes. They are losers, probably addicted to drugs.

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Monday, Nov 24 at 4:21 PM Citizen wrote ...

How stupid is our society!?

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Monday, Nov 24 at 4:06 PM Shel wrote ...

How sad these scumbags have to steal from a defenseless lady. Thank god she was able to tell someone about the incident. I'm glad she will be getting her ring back. Good work to everyone who helped in this case.

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Monday, Nov 24 at 3:57 PM Anonymous wrote ...

OMG! The pair have probably stolen from their own grandparents.

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Monday, Nov 24 at 3:50 PM cindy wrote ...

Can you say scumbags.....

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